Just because you think you made a decision doesn't mean it's the right one. Just because you say, "It's what my gut tells me," doesn't mean it's right. Just because your friends tells you it's okay doesn't mean they're. It's like that saying. What is it again? Oh, right. "Just because they tell you to jump off the bridge doesn't mean you should do it." Be leader not a follower. In other words; think positive, use your mind and think about the outcome, and don't a follower. Be who you are and not what they tell you to be. They may not like it and they probably will disconnect from you. If they do, they are not real. Pick new ones that will accept you for you. And when you find new ones, you will make smarter decisions.